A Pleasant First Date and the Change of Seasons Arrives
In the spaces between relationships, we get to know ourselves again. It is a "rainy days and Mondays" kind of a day here. I'm feeling the feels. And aware of…
Dads: When Family Courts Start at 70 – 30 Custody, the Kids Lose
In my family, I was also a nurturer. I was the one who got breakfast started every morning, woke everyone up, including my then-wife, and ushered everyone along the path…
The Long Retelling of My Divorce
I did learn to love full-on in this marriage. I learned to put my whole soul into the project and come back with the joy of being a parent, and…
My Ex May Think I’m the Enemy, But They Are Misguided
My ex still thinks I'm her problem. When she vents at me I begin to feel like she's got some unfinished business. Just like I did when we were married.…
The Positive Divorce – Whole Parent 2018 Update
How can we make divorce part of an evolution towards happiness for all parties involved? I have been writing about and coaching single parents for five years. (A single parent…
Would You Damage Your Co-Parent’s Livelihood If You Could?
How do you support or damage your co-parent? I know it's a weird question, but it keeps coming up for me. Let me explain. Do you know how your credit…
Going Meta: Divorce, Depression, and Befriending Sadness
I am a feeling-driven person. My moods can drive ecstatic highs of creativity and pull me into lows of lethargy and inertia. There's no amount of lamenting that's going to…
The Divorced Dad Syndrome Miss-plained By a Divorced Mom
Divorced Dad Syndrome? I'd never heard of it until I sumbled on this post. There are some inherent problems in the opening paragraphs of this divorced mom's premise about marriage…
