Do Not Write About Me Or Our Children, She Demanded
To say that my ex-wife was unhappy when she found my anonymous blog over 12 years ago would be an understatement. At this point, our kids were in elementary and…
Divorce, once mentioned, is a slippery and difficult journey. As you pull apart the lives you’ve built together, there will be anger, resentment, frustration, and even joy, and ecstasy. But the divorce is hard on everyone. Listen for who needs support and then give your love and attention. Always.
POSITIVE DIVORCE (is a concept, an alignment, an intention I use as I go through life as a single dad.)
- START HERE: Transformational Divorce
- Dear Custodial Parent: We Are All Still Together After Divorce
- Porcupine Mode: Expressing Dissatisfaction In Your Relationship
- In All Cases Be Kind, Unless You Can’t Then Be Assertive
- Reflecting On My Ex-wife’s Rage Nine Years After the Divorce She Wanted
- The Double-edged Sword of Divorce: Happier But Alone
- My Single Parent Slogan: Every Day At a Time
- Fathers and Daughters: Divorce Affects Us Differently
Divorce is one of the most disorienting events in my life. Everything was lost. I have made a point of trying to turn the bad points into positive information. I am here support you as best I can to lessen the impact on your children. Divorce is the beginning of a new journey. You can make it better for everyone by paying attention to what matters. Your anger at your ex needs to be handled on your own.
The Lies My Wife Told and Continued During Our Parenting Struggles
If she doesn't' respond to my daughter, why would I think she's going to respond or even be friendly to me? I don't think about it much, anymore. It's so much more obvious as we now enter the 10th year of our co-parenting journey, that she really is a bit self-centered.
An Imbalance of Joyful Parenting: Moms and Dads Are Different
The imbalanced schedule they were assigned by my wife's actions, meant that I was going to be a marginal character in their lives.
Loving You Every Day of Your Life: A Father’s Journey Thru Divorce
If you don't do the work, you may remain stuck in the past. You may wrestle with the depression and demons of your parent's transgressions and lack of support.
My Kids and How Dads Don’t Give Up After Divorce
It's not about the science of parenting and divorce. It's not "in the best interest of the children." It's about MONEY.
Is Life Coaching for You?
Life coaching is: learning life skills and tools you can use outside of a session.
Divorce Happy
If you navigate a positive divorce, perhaps it will be happier and better for everyone. Plan for happiness and build a parenting schedule that will value BOTH mom and dad equally.
Are the Skeletons of Your Past Still Haunting Your Present?
Get your skeleton identified and well-scrubbed. Bring them out in the light of day. Work out your fears and frustrations. And then walk free of their unhealthy influence.