I Cannot Fix Your Broken Wings, I’m Still Repairing Mine
Not the courageous choice as Brené Brown puts it, but the choice for comfort. And, again, that's not the right path for me and I knew it. I was angry…
Standing Strong Together: Boundaries and Relationships in the #METOO Era
When a woman stands strong and states what she wants in a relationship everyone benefits. She must state what she wants. She must also define her boundaries in the relationship…
Announcing the New Book: A Good Dad’s Guide to Divorce
Subtitle: One father’s journey to staying connected and engaged with his children before, during, and after divorce. The Preface Nothing can prepare you for the grief surrounding divorce. And with…
What Do You Tell Your Kids About Divorce As They Grow Older?
The divorce was never my idea. I did not ask for it. I did not agree with it. And I fought against it. But you cannot force another person to…
The Odyssey of the Single Father: Kids Change Everything
I lost all of the arguments about staying in the marriage, about divorcing with 50/50 custody, about keeping our family together. A radical transformation happens in your relationship the minute…
Experience, Strength, and Hope After a Divorce with Kids
From the darkness of the loss, surrounding your kids and your ex-spouse, will emerge your own ideas of a joyful future. It's going to get easier. You are going to…
Single Father Manifesto: I’ll Never Stop Pursuing You
I lost the divorce. Of course, it was a collaborative divorce, so there was no fight. But in the end, when the state and my ex-wife had their way I…
The Low-Conflict Divorce Hustle: What You Don’t Know Will Hurt You
Equal parenting is how we started this whole "kids" thing. Don't you think equal parenting is how we should finish it? My then-wife went to see an attorney during the…
