What I would like to propose is: give your body and soul what it needs/craves. Try and make healthier choices if you decide a meal or snack is in your best interest. And then, let it go, move on. Keep going. Do a bit more, eat a bit healthier, sleep a bit more, play a lot more, and listen to what your soul and body tell you.
I'm here to meet ONE person, to establish mutual respect and admiration and a monogamous partnership if things go as planned. Easy, right?
Men are animals. Women are less-than-truthful. You might be better served to work on your lifestyle and fitness more than your online dating profile.
Here's the truth: I can't make you happier. I can't give you energy at the end of your work week or workday. I can't feel sensual when the feedback from you is "tired, overwhelmed, frustrated."
I learn something new and vital each time I'm in a long-term relationship.
Don't give up. Just because all of your previous relationships have failed, does not mean that the next date might be The One.
There is no bridge that's going to make our relationship work again, so my longing necessarily stayed in my own heart. There is no sense in sharing our desires and hopes when the other person is not available. It only makes it hurt worse.
Who shows up in my life next is a mystery, but I intend to give 100% of my available attention to her. This is how I do it.