Adjusting My Viewpoint: Online Dating
Don't give up. Keep positive. Learn to express your wants and needs, and understand why they are two different things.
Relationships take a lot of work. Dating, online dating, and courtship all have one goal, to give us a Relationship to thrive in. It is hard to find a healthy, attractive, and willing partner. When you do, what happens next is the most important part. I work on relationship-building as a skill set. How can I be a better partner? How can I say with this person for life?
Don't give up. Keep positive. Learn to express your wants and needs, and understand why they are two different things.
When sex enters a relationship everything changes and your thinking is going to be challenged for 6 months to a year. Don't trust your thoughts during this period. Don't make any big decisions together. If you get to two red flags, again, BOLT.
Are you able to move towards your partner, your relationship, your co-creation of a shared vision? As long as the answer is "YES" from both of you the journey of discovery can continue.
If we're going to find our path together we're going to need to revisit our plans, open our minds and hearts. If there's a mismatch, we have to be willing to evolve or let go.
In a loving relationship, I can grow to be a happier version of myself. I think that's what we're all hungry for. Being happier in our lives. For me, this involves a romantic relationship.
I am accepting things as they are at this moment. Hopeful and unafraid about the future.
You can push yourself beyond your previous limitations and fears, you can begin to build the life you desire.
At this very moment: my joy is infinite; my happiness is connected to some higher power; inner contentment and creative energies have come into balance