Love | The Whole Parent

Love is the core skill and core need we all have. Many of us grew up in homes where love was conditional. If you behave this way I will love you. If you go against my wishes, I will exclude you from my love. This is not how love works. Love is universal energy, either you’re tapped into it and give it freely, or you are lacking in love.

This Isn’t Wonderland: You’ll Stay Lost Without a Dating Plan

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 3, 2023
Post category:Dating humans of divorce Love relationship building Relationships self-awareness sexual chemistry

It is critical to articulate what you want in a partner. Then, stick to it. Don't settle for average.

Good Morning, I Love You (Learning Love Habits)

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 1, 2023
Post category:Dating humans of divorce Joy Love relationship building Relationships sexual chemistry

Show you love your partner by putting them first. Give them your time. Give them your attention and mini-connections throughout the day.

Sex Without Desire Is More Like Porn Than Lovemaking

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:January 3, 2023
Post category:Dating Love Married Life Relationships Self-care Sex

This might have spelled the end more clearly than I understood. She didn't want sex. She fought about sex. She complained about how I asked for sex. She always got off when we had sex, but she had started not-caring about the LOVE in the experience. And that was a deal killer, both in the moment and in our marriage.

how is it possible? (a poem)

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:January 2, 2023
Post category:Joy Love Poetry

i am not completely certain that you are not a dream or that i have not lost my mind as i lean into your arms a feeling as clean as…

The Sex Index: Finding It, Getting Good at Getting It On

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:November 17, 2022
Post category:Dating Health and Fitness Love relationship building Relationships Sex sexual chemistry

Let's talk about sex with our partners. Let's be patient with them when they are growing and stretching into a new partnership. Being vulnerable is the biggest key to letting your sexual energy grow and strengthen your relationship.