Pie vs. Pot: Self-Regulation In the Limitless Era
Finding the balance in our lives requires self-awareness and the discipline, time, and energy to carry out our creative plans.
Drinking is not a problem until it begins to affect your relationship. Only you can determine if your alcohol romance is interfering with your partnership. The drinker must want to change, or not. The codependent non-drinker cannot wait around for the drinker to change. The people in relationships with drinkers, need to find their own comfort, their own strength if they choose to remain with the drinker or not.
Finding the balance in our lives requires self-awareness and the discipline, time, and energy to carry out our creative plans.
Your best photo causes me to say, "I want to be the one taking these photos of her, I want to be the one making her smile like that."
Write your profile honestly. State what you want. State what you're bringing to the party. Then edit, ask, talk, phone, and get to know them before you go for that intoxicating "first date." And, in my opinion, avoid meeting for alcoholic drinks.
And at that moment, I also felt the joy of my father's love upon me. He might have left the planet 15 years ago, but his love is still within me. And each time I can really hear and connect with my own kids, my heart lights up with a little bit more healing of my 5-year-old self, my wounded little boy.
Okay, I'm in. I'm going to stretch and not eat candy, sugar, ice cream, or cake for the month of October. If it has the word dessert attached to it, I'm a NO THANK YOU. #SoberOctober
If you don't know what you're looking for it's going to be harder to find. AND, if you don't know what magic you bring to the experience, it's also going to be harder to dial in a real fit. Finally, pictures. You don't need glamour shots.
Angry alcoholic dad systematically destroys his own empire.
"You didn't cause it, you can't cure it, and you can't change it." Focus on yourself and what's inside your hula hoop.