Listening to the Sadness
I learned to do a killer swan dive that summer at the country club. In my feelings of sadness and dread of the coming hurricane of divorce, I began to detach from the happy rich kid.
Drinking is not a problem until it begins to affect your relationship. Only you can determine if your alcohol romance is interfering with your partnership. The drinker must want to change, or not. The codependent non-drinker cannot wait around for the drinker to change. The people in relationships with drinkers, need to find their own comfort, their own strength if they choose to remain with the drinker or not.
- What I Learned About Drinking: The Summer of Love
- Drinking to Relax During Covid-19: Examining the Scientific Facts
- DRINKING: Dancing with the Ghost of My Dead Father?
- Drinking Is Only An Issue When It Damages a Person or a Relationship
- If Drinking is An Issue In Your Relationship: Check-in w/ Yourself
- The Sober Person’s Perspective in a Drinking World
- Drinking Is Not the Problem: It’s the Emotional Exit that Wrecks Relationships
You Saw the Red Flags, Right? Why We Lean In When We Should Leave
I'm sensing some sort of "shoe ready to drop" but it's all in my mind at this point. It's like PTSD from my past relationships. I don't really recognize when I meet a healthy partner.
My Bandwidth for Bullsh*t Is Being Actively Restricted
Release the relationships that are not meeting your basic conditions of satisfaction. And nourish and build relationships that build warm and fuzzy connections.
What You Need to Learn About Relationships, How Online Dating Helps
Only through learning from past mistakes will you be able to evolve into the dating partner you want to become.
Here’s What I Told Her About My Trauma
It's hard when you're on the receiving end of someone else's trigger. But we can get better at identifying our own triggers and triggered moments. And there are ways to help our partners notice when the rage or sadness that is coming out of them, might be a bit bigger or deeper than the infraction that caused the initial pain.
Divorced Dads In Movies and Television
In today's divorce world, dads are still seen as breadwinners and second-class parents. And there are plenty of scripts that show this to be true.
Love Now, Love Well, and Love With Everything You’ve Got
By becoming mindful, I can remain confident and consistent even when I'm working on something that is unpleasant. It is time to take charge of your life and your time.
Is Life Coaching for You?
Life coaching is: learning life skills and tools you can use outside of a session.