The Whole Parent

she called again : a poem

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 12, 2021
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to ask about something, she said she couldn't get it out articulation being one of her faults she was angry there was something she wanted me to do or not…

in the clear : a poem

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 12, 2021
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in seconds our bubbles drifted apart there was no pop sound no resistance a breeze from the east pushed me outward towards the ocean's edge the sun was peeking over…

Where Does True Love Start? ❤️ What Makes It End?

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 12, 2021
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Only by running up the hill repeatedly, are you going to find a partner at the top, who's compatible, sexy, and available. It's a rare thing when two people click. That's what we're looking for. The Big CLICK.

Checking-In with Online Dating in 2021: Still Challenging & Vapid

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 10, 2021
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You're going to have to be active in participating, in saying hello in real-time, and not using "online dating is so bad" as an excuse. I know I do it. But let's get out there together, okay?

Online Dating Refresh 2021: Can We Start Over?

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 9, 2021
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I quickly and clearly expressed my change of plans and released them back into the stream of possibilities. Get more clear on your dating goals. And if you need someone to talk to about all of this crazy mess, I'm here.

When You Are Able to Ask For What You Want & Let It Go

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 8, 2021
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But if you're ignoring numero uno, by not taking care of your needs, your health, your sleep, your boundaries, the crash will come for you. You cannot drink enough coffee or take enough anti-depressants to correct a lack of self-care.

Dating a Single Dad and Learning to Love His Kids

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 5, 2021
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Dating a single parent can be a lot like struggling with a toddler. They punch you in the eye, spill juice in your bed, and say, "I love you SOOO much."

A Zen Retake on Love: Attachment is the Root of All Suffering

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 4, 2021
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Zen often offers lovely koans that make us feel good for a moment, enlightened for a nanosecond, and then drops us back into the awareness that "oh, it's a FB…