An Empath Gets Divorced and the Universe Goes Dark
Every single blow against me is felt by our children.
Every single blow against me is felt by our children.
I'm just as dog-like and happy as I've ever been. I'm cultivating my Frodo-like personality traits. I'm also well aware of my somewhat unbalanced need to be loved by everyone.
Not everything needs to be worked out all the time. And, for the most part, I can trigger unhappy feelings for you, but the deep sadness or anger you feel, is probably not because of me.
By allowing you to experience and process your own distress, without my interference, I am giving you the utmost respect. I am viewing you as whole, strong, and capable. And in my affirmation of you and your inherent ability to be strong and sufficient, I am reaffirming my belief in you.
My motto for dealing with my ex-wife and her anger: Focus on your children. Love your children.
How aware are you of your current state of energy? Your mood? Your momentum and trajectory?
Give your partner the ravishing they are longing for and you might get your connection needs met at the same time. A win-win.
Let's do this TOGETHER. It's much easier if we're on the side of our kids and not against one another.