Thriving After Divorce: 6 Lifehacks Along the Recovery Process
"I'm happier after the divorce." That might sound trite, but I am sincerely convinced that my divorce transition made me a better dad, a better man, and a more conscious…
Getting Good At Blameless Breakups
If you've been dating again since your divorce, you've hopefully had a couple relationships. (Relationship - def: a monogamous dating experience that lasts more than a few months.) And unless…
Where Did Your Heart Go After We Got Married?
I'm not sure of the mechanics of marriage and then ennui. I do know that when I got married there were very few activities that we wouldn't do together. She…
Why Online Dating is a Distraction and Not a Solution
Yes, I know the statistics. All the happily married couples from online dating sites. Well, I don't buy it. All online dating sites, regardless of the flavor or method, are…
The 6-Step Relationship Strategy
Spend time together. Keep checking in with each other and with yourself. "How does it feel?" Let the answer to that question guide your relationship decisions. And remember, kissing can lead to lovemaking, if you both want to head in that direction.
Unlocking Touch – The Love Language I Speak
Question: Are all men self-identified "touch" addicts? I was told by a woman the other day, discussing Love Languages, that she'd never met a man that identified as anything other…
Burning Down the House of Love and Hope
In the final moments of my marriage, in couple's therapy, as we were parting with our therapist, he asked for us to give closing summaries of where we were with…
What I Learned From My First and Second Marriages
You learn a lot by getting married. You also learn a lot by getting divorced. While I was really ready to exit my first, abusive, marriage, I was also devastated…
