Love Archives

Love is the core skill and core need we all have. Many of us grew up in homes where love was conditional. If you behave this way I will love you. If you go against my wishes, I will exclude you from my love. This is not how love works. Love is universal energy, either you’re tapped into it and give it freely, or you are lacking in love.

When Divorce Negotiations Start at 70 – 30 Custody, the Kids Lose

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 21, 2023
Post category:Anger Co-Parenting Depression Divorce Health and Fitness humans of divorce Joy Love Married Life Money Parenting Self-care Single-Dad
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When we started down the road of negotiating a cooperative divorce (because it's all about the children) our divorce and parenting plan counselor also suggested 70-30.

Giving Up the Ghost of Your Love

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 9, 2023
Post category:Dating Depression Love relationship building Relationships Self-care Spirituality
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It is not our job to fix broken relationships or broken people. Our job is to show up in the arena of a relationship and do the best we possibly can to love and be loved.

This Isn’t Wonderland: You’ll Stay Lost Without a Dating Plan

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 3, 2023
Post category:Dating humans of divorce Love relationship building Relationships self-awareness sexual chemistry
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It is critical to articulate what you want in a partner. Then, stick to it. Don't settle for average.

Good Morning, I Love You (Learning Love Habits)

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 1, 2023
Post category:Dating humans of divorce Joy Love relationship building Relationships sexual chemistry
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Show you love your partner by putting them first. Give them your time. Give them your attention and mini-connections throughout the day.

how is it possible? (a poem)

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:January 2, 2023
Post category:Joy Love Poetry
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i am not completely certain that you are not a dream or that i have not lost my mind as i lean into your arms a feeling as clean as…

5 Health Factors to Prevent or Lessen Seasonal Depression: Get Support

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:December 15, 2022
Post category:Co-Parenting Depression Divorce Health and Fitness Joy Love Relationships Self-care Single-Dad Spirituality
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Listen to your body. If you are feeling sad, check in with someone else. If you notice your overall vibe heading towards the black hole, take all necessary evasive actions.

The Sex Index: Finding It, Getting Good at Getting It On

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:November 17, 2022
Post category:Dating Health and Fitness Love relationship building Relationships Sex sexual chemistry
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Let's talk about sex with our partners. Let's be patient with them when they are growing and stretching into a new partnership. Being vulnerable is the biggest key to letting your sexual energy grow and strengthen your relationship.