The Divorce Orchestration Library
I attempted to give hope to struggling families, hope to divorced and lonely people and a few simple practices of mindfulness.
Retro for 2023: The Best of The Whole Parent
Even those I disagree with, I have love for you. I don't want you to hurt yourself when you attack me. I have love and aikido for your safety.
What Everyone Loses in Divorce
My love and influence were dimmed by 70%. It's a shame when this happens to good dads or moms.
Relationship Timing and the Fragility of a True Connection
Alone I am able to focus on these thing without distraction. I have no other pulls on my time and energy. Alone my general state is happy. But I long for a lover and companion.
Single Dad, Again
So, if you're single, go ahead and put your best foot forward and get out there. Getting to a relationship may take months, so you might as well start exploring the field. And if you see the 10% as potentials then you begin to get hopeful that there "might" be someone out there for you.
Back to School Challenges as a Divorced Dad
Another year begins. My daughter is on to Volleyball, Basketball and Track/Tennis. And we're all back to our 70/30 routine. And I've got nothing to complain about and plenty to be grateful for.
I’m Proud of You: The Dance of Fathers and Their Sons
I'm excited to live through those times WITH my kids. And I will be 100% positive and 100% present for all of them, as long as I live.
Positive Divorce: From Blame To Forgiveness
Positive divorce is a choice. And the process to get there requires time, insight, and often the help of professionals. But the alternative is bitterness and continued failings at love relationships as you make the same mistakes, miss the same red flags, and put up with the same behaviors that got you into the divorce in the first place.