Young Girls at the Pool: Youth and the Folly of Desire
I was in the pool yesterday with my girlfriend. My beautiful and lovely girlfriend. And two pair of girls entered the pool with us. Two very different pairs of girls.…
Serenity with my Ex-wife Begins and Ends with Me
I will never see eye to eye with my ex-wife. She turned my late-payer ass over to the collection agency of the state, and all hell has broken loose in…
A Dad’s Path After Divorce Is Hard and Lonely
Divorce, depression, and suicide rates all climb together. The divorce nearly killed me. The kingdom I had created was crushed, leveled, abandoned in one 36 hour period. Except for one glaring fact:…
How To Fight Loneliness…
Being alone is one of the huge bummers of getting a divorce. If you're touch-centered, as I am, the lack of touch is deathly. Hugging hug piles of pillows when I go to bet simulates a lover, but does nothing to fulfill the warmth and closeness needs that many of us have. So what do you do when you're lonely?
Relationship Timing and the Fragility of a True Connection
Two different women in the last few weeks have lit up my chemistry match. Both of them mentioned their boyfriend. I might get bummed out, but I wasn't. I was…
Back to School Challenges as a Divorced Dad
Another year begins. My daughter is on to Volleyball, Basketball and Track/Tennis. And we're all back to our 70/30 routine. And I've got nothing to complain about and plenty to be grateful for.
What Am I Doing? Divorce, Depression, and a Single Dad In #Recovery
No rapture here, just daily strength and hope, from a divorced dad. I do think I've grown as a result of this blog. The growth and transformation over the last…
Massive Action: The Return Journey Begins Now
I did not want an incremental win. I needed a massive win, so what was required of me, as the captain, was massive action. I had been on this oxygen-starved…
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