Love Is… Love is Not… How Do We Find and Keep Love?
Growing together is hard. There will be bumps in the road. Even your perfect partner may appear less evolved and you might be tempted to return to the swiping apps. Don't.
Understanding Attraction: Do, Be, Don’t
Find what you like and what she doesn't like. Find new things you can both explore together. And find how your needs, desires, and futures align.
The Powerful Pause Before Jumping Into a New Relationship
As we become clearer in our boundaries, in what is good for us and what is not good for us, we can make choices more easily. When something doesn't feel good, we're able to say, "NO. This will not work for me."
All Kinds of Women and the Sparks of Desire: Online Dating for Adults
What would happen if a woman came along who was within my attractive range and was interested in a relationship? I guess I would get the opportunity to feel the pressure that I occasionally put on "dates." I'm not sure what's ahead, but I'm interested in finding out how I learn and grow in my next relationship, with a partner who wants a relationship.
Relationships at the Speed of Life: On Becoming a Couple Together
I'm a handful. I'm whimsical. I'm capricious. I have a lot of irons in the fire. And, sure, I demand a woman with a high level of confidence and well-seasoned experience in relationship building. We've got to both be into the evolution of becoming a couple.
How Soon Do You Say, “I Love You” In a New Relationship?
At this point in my life, 8 years divorced with two teenage kids, I have a lot of life ahead of me. As I see this woman standing beside me, I see a partner who can join with me in my dreams, who can challenge me in my beliefs and fallacies, and who is solid enough in her own life path that she shares joy and confidence in our potential lives together.
The Heat & Co-Pilot: Forget About Danger, Think About Fun
Alignment with our hearts and minds is only useful if there is heat to fuel your adventures together. Let's keep the fires burning, while jointly navigating the star maps. Our destination might be unknown, but our partnership gets more solid and joyful with each passing day we spend together.
Dating Advice to My Friend: What’s the Biggest Challenge
If my friend is staying in the "dating" and "fooling around" mode, he's not going to gain any long-term insights.