Why I’m Not Dating Again
Dating sucks. Perhaps in today's lingo "dating" means having sex, but the whole concept is outdated. Or I am. Today i'm shutting done all four of my dating profiles. I've…
Dating sucks. Perhaps in today's lingo "dating" means having sex, but the whole concept is outdated. Or I am. Today i'm shutting done all four of my dating profiles. I've…
In my last two relationships, heck in most of my relationships that lasted more than a few weeks, I was not the dumper I was the dumpee. I have been…
I do recover. I am conscious of when I'm avoiding. I still do it, but I'm doing it less. And I'm learning to take the uncomfortable feelings or worry by the horns and looking the damn bull in the eye and saying, "To hell with you, fear, I'm going in!"
4 weeks ago I lost my best friend and lover. I moved out of her house and promptly fell apart. But then again, I didn't fall apart like I thought…
I was showing myself that I was emerging from one of the longest depressions I've been in as an adult. For me, creativity and brain health go hand in hand. So I'm happy to be back, still working, but on the upswing.
So, if you're single, go ahead and put your best foot forward and get out there. Getting to a relationship may take months, so you might as well start exploring the field. And if you see the 10% as potentials then you begin to get hopeful that there "might" be someone out there for you.
It's all a crap shoot. Photos lie. Profiles tell half-truths. And some of us are interested in actually establishing a relationship
If we can build our alignment of priorities around our kids' health and happiness, then we can both relax when we are able to find time alone as a couple.