Re-HUMANising Online Dating
find your own happiness
I'm here to meet ONE person, to establish mutual respect and admiration and a monogamous partnership if things go as planned. Easy, right?
Getting Started Again with Online Dating: So, You’ve Broken Up…
Keep sex out of the game until you are sure you want to give this relationship a long-term shot. Sex clouds everything. Sex blinds us to the red flags that could be burning right before our eyes. When the sex hormones kick in we are no longer capable of making rational decisions.
Unquenchable Optimism of the Heart: 12-Years of Dating Lessons
When someone is really available they have time, they make time, and they bring their own ideas to the party of planning our journey together.
Cooling the Sexual Fire Before You Get Burned
So let's aspire to good sex, but let's put our private parts on hold for a moment while we get some clarity on what an actual relationship might look like with this person. We can't spend more than 1% of our time together in bed.
Dear Lover, I Want Everything Right Now
I am learning to ask. I am learning to fall completely head-over-heels in love. Perhaps my choices have not all worked out, but they have all involved 100% effort on my part. And my love has soared to higher highs than I knew possible.
An Intentional First Date Starts with a Kiss: Episode 7 of Love on the Air
"Taking a year to really work on me, and be happy with me..." As Richard rebuilt a house in the Zilker area of Austin, Texas, he was aware of how the house was a metaphor of his self-recovery process. "I worked on the entryway of me. And then I had to work on the inside. I need to open up space, and make space for somebody."
Whole Adults Dating Again: Knowing Ourselves, What We Won’t Compromise
What am I willing to give up to be WITH someone. What would "tonight" look like if there were another person waiting in the wings to spend time with me.
Encouraging News About Online Dating from One of the Good Guys
If you are not overtly focused on finding your next long-term relationship, by all means, play around in the online dating pool. Learn some skills. Kiss some frogs. But when you get serious about finding a partner, well, set your intentions and your standards a lot higher.