mindfulness < a new index of happiness and hope
Mindfulness is a state of awareness that allows us to observe and learn from our own actions. By imagining ourselves holding a video camera and recording the scene we are enacting, we can find the “detached observer” mode that brings new perspectives to our behaviors and feelings. I cannot very well separate mindfulness from the core focus of this website: relationships, love, self-love, and mood management. Mindfulness to me is about seeking a balanced walk through life. Acting and speaking with kindness at all times. I got censored today by Facebook for taking on a misogynistic troll. Did I need to confront him for his egregious behavior? No. And it distracted me for an hour during the prime productive part of my morning. Oh well, Facebook is the lack of mindfulness.
This list is a collection of “mindful” articles written over the last few years. I practice my patience and kindness every day. I meditate most days. And I do my best to always do my best. I fail often, but I get back up and start again. And when things begin again, stop. Breathe. And make clear decisions that move you closer to your partner, your life goals, and your family. That’s the essence of it right there.

The Mindfulness Index of The Whole Parent
- START HERE: mindfulness < a new index of happiness and hope
- Wonderlust In Life
- Finding Joy In the Diner’s Crappy Cup of Joe
- Finding the Kindness In All of Life
- Letting Go Of Being Happy
- The Unwavering Love of Your Dog Can Enlighten You
- Finding Meaning in the Mindfulness of Life
- Be Mindful About Your Life: All Activity is Either Input + Output
- MNDFL + MFKR (You can be either, better to be both)
- “You Look Tired” Let’s Talk About Living Your Best Life
- Here and Now: Returning To Peace, Learning Patience
- Capturing Love, Loss, and Laughter in the Moment
- Creativity: When It Comes, Listen, Pause, Proceed
- Sharing Our Perfect Moments | The Yes Practice
- What’s One More Love Poem Worth?
- Looking to Get a Little Higher: Seeking Elevation & Immortality
- In This Moment You Choose: Happy or Resentful
- Finding Myself and My Body, Again
- Setting Priorities in Life: The Only Path Forward
- This Very Moment… This Is It… Stop… Smell the Roses… Give Thanks.
- How Do You Suffer the Fools and Jerks in Your Life?
- My Hierarchy of Needs Revisited: The Short List of Happiness
- Overwhelmed and Out of Balance: Finding Your Inner Chill
- This Creative Life: A Lifelong Adventure into The Artist’s Way
- To The End of Exhaustion: Learning To Allow and Choose Rest
- Where Are You F**king Up? Accountability and Resetting Our Path
- Radical Honesty: Changing Your Journey By Risking the Truth
- Finding a Balance In Life: Extreme Highs Have Consequences
- Finding Balance in a World Addicted to Getting *High*
- Interrupting Our Own Storytelling: a 4-Step Path to Mindfulness
- You Are Already There: Taking Stock of Your Perfect Moments
- Pura Vida: Finding and Sharing Our Eternal Optimism
- The New Year In Advance: 2022 Mindful Returns and Love
- Arriving At This Moment, Again (Mindfulness in Action)
- Low Power Mode: Managing Depression and Energy
- Going Meta: Breakups, Depression, and Befriending Sadness
- Our Daily Grind: How Do You Trend Up or Down During the Day?
- Finding My Own Way Alone: “I’m Still Lost and Running”
- Giving Time: If This Moment is All We Have
- Emotional Variability: Healthier Living Through Mindful Awareness
- Finding Peace w/ Unsettled, Unresolved, and Incomplete: Surrender
- The Language of Love: Speaking the Truth with Kindness
- Pointing Your Arrow Towards Happiness: Lessons In Self-Awareness
- Gratitude Resets Your Attitude – Just Say YES!
- Things Are Always Working Out for Me! (Affirming the YES)
- Savor This Very Second – Breathe – Pause – Savor!
- Even the High Is Exhausting: A Mindful Pause
- Pausing in the Gap: Trying to Force An Answer Is Not the Way
- Resilience, Self-Care, the Mindset of Joy in This Moment
- Life Is Emerging: Actively Waiting for *What’s Next*
- High-Fivin the Universe: The View from Here and Now
- ME Cycles and Wondermints: Why Is Self-Care So Difficult?
- Finding My Authentic Self: Can You See the Real Me?
- What Good Is Love If…
- Overloaded, Overshared, and Overwhelmed? Stop Input & Output
- Heal Your Heart from Fear and Loss with Honest Vulnerability
- You Can’t Push the River: Slow Down, Enjoy the Journey
- What Do We Learn When Things Fall Apart?
- Maybe the Love We Seek Is Our Own
- Cracking Open the Heart of the Sky and Feeling Happy
- A Message from My Higher Power – The Universe: Jump Off!
- Low Power Mode: Managing Depression and Energy
- Finding Peace at the Edge of the Unknown: Stoking Your Soul Fire
- In the Birthday Cake of the Present Moment You Have Three Choices
- The Inner Life of Your Kid: Navigating Our Own Rainy Fridays
- Our Response to Someone Else is 100% Up to Us: Choose the Positive
- The Irreconcilably Irritating Present And How to Find Peace in It
- Bad Habits We’re Supposed To Outgrow As We Become Parents
- I’ve Lost My Fire: How to Regain a Passionate Life
- Uppers and Downers: Caffeine, Alcohol, and Micro-dosing
- We Do the Walk of Life
- The Company You Keep and Keeping Your Own Company
- Self-Care and Appreciation: Can I Love All of Myself Right Now?
- All of your Life is Input + All of your Actions are Output
- More Self-Care, Less Rush Rush Stress and Anxiety
- You Are Loved: A Meditation on Self-love and Self-awareness
- If You’re Happy and You Know It: Our Spiritual Connection w/ Each Other
- Self-Care and Fitness: How You Treat Yourself Says More than You Think
- What the Bear in Your Bed Might Be Telling You: Managing Anxiety
- Do You Know the DNA of Your Perfect Day?
- A Radical Approach to Joy
- Just Because You Feel It, Doesn’t Mean It’s There
- Letting Go of Those We Love
- Seeking Happy: A Dad Explains His Joyousness
- Is Love My Drug of Choice?
- Facing Health Issues Alone; Sometimes You Just Want Someone to Hold Your Hand
- Losing Everything Again, And Finding Happiness Anyway
- How To Fight Loneliness…
- Universe Says: FULL STOP
- What’s Underneath the Pain? My Anger Resistance Is Illuminating
- Fierce Love – What You’re Looking For
- Stop Thinking: The Lost Art of Deep Listening
- Going Meta: Divorce, Depression, and Befriending Sadness