When Divorce Negotiations Start at 70 – 30 Custody, the Kids Lose

When we started down the road of negotiating a cooperative divorce (because it's all about the children) our divorce and parenting plan counselor also suggested 70-30.

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The Lies My Wife Told and Continued During Our Parenting Struggles

If she doesn't' respond to my daughter, why would I think she's going to respond or even be friendly to me? I don't think about it much, anymore. It's so much more obvious as we now enter the 10th year of our co-parenting journey, that she really is a bit self-centered.

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Loving You Every Day of Your Life: A Father’s Journey Thru Divorce

If you don't do the work, you may remain stuck in the past. You may wrestle with the depression and demons of your parent's transgressions and lack of support.

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Do You Realize? Single Parenting Challenges and Little Victories

I believe if you parented together you should continue that loving and inclusive process even if you're no longer married to one another.

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Is Divorce the Best Decision for You? What About Your Kids?

Deciding whether to divorce is a tough, complex, and controversial subject. There are no right or wrong answers, nor are there any simplistic solutions.

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