The Beauty Trap: How Good Looks Can Lead Us Astray
I am full of desire. And when I don't have an object for my affection I project that romance on to everyone who passes by. My first two marriages were…
Relationships at the Speed of Life
We've got to both be into the evolution of becoming a couple. Things are slowing down a bit. The Bumble matches have stopped popping up. The one dating app connection…
The Beleaguered Single Mother
I don't know much about how my ex-wife dealt with the divorce and her recovery from the breakup of our family. I do know she got the lion's share of…
Evolved Dating: Driven in the Non-linear World of Relationships
Relationships don't follow a straight path. As I have rejoined the single-and-seeking world of online dating, I am more conscious of what is working and what is broken in the…
Dating Lessons: All This Swiping Feels a Bit Demeaning
"Go slow. Friends before lovers. There is no hurry. Pause before responding. Let them experience the chase for a bit as well." Swipe. Swipe. Swipe. That's all you've got to…
The Joyful Woman is Nearby, I’ve Seen Her
I learn a lot from self-observation. Even when I'm not actively looking for a relationship I notice the flow of people around me. People watching is a sport, right? And…
Dating A Single Parent: Two Simple Checklists
Single parents are multiplying. And as we get out of our sadness and rebuilding after a divorce, we begin imagining, or not imagining, ourselves in a new (different) relationship. We…
Life of Dad – Talks to John About Single-Parenting and Dating Again
Art Eddy and I start talking about my new book, Single Dad Seeks, but we go off on a range of topics about single parenting, dating and making things right…
