Would You Damage Your Co-Parent’s Livelihood If You Could?
My motto for dealing with my ex-wife and her anger: Focus on your children. Love your children.
Lessons of an Old Dog: Parenting, Divorce, and Codependency
For the last years of his life, my buddy will do whatever he does as an old dog. I will watch him zigzagging around the back yard and try to remain happy for him rather than sad for him. I will love on him as much as I can. And I'll be aware of how my emotional attachments and complaints are mine alone. He's a dog.
Still Wrestling With the *BS* of My Ex-wife and the AG’s Office
As our kids grow up, our past transgressions and lies will come back to haunt us. I don't think I've lied to them, other than the agreed upon lie (giving my wife the all-important cover) that the divorce was a mutual decision. It was not.
Child Support and the Livelihood of Moms Over Dads
child support credit impact
When divorce is amicable there's a chance for equal parenting. When a divorce starts with Dads getting 30% of the time and 100% of the expenses there is little incentive for moms to be fair.
Do Not Write About Me Or Our Children, She Demanded
To say that my ex-wife was unhappy when she found my anonymous blog over 12 years ago would be an understatement. At this point, our kids were in elementary and…
Divorce Happy
If you navigate a positive divorce, perhaps it will be happier and better for everyone. Plan for happiness and build a parenting schedule that will value BOTH mom and dad equally.
Why Entitlements In Divorce Are Abusive
Marriage and parenting start at 50/50. Divorce should start at 50/50 without child support, and negotiate from there.
Attachment Parenting Benefits Begin To Fracture After Divorce
Attachment parenting is the way to go. One parent, weaponizing the divorce, can do untold damage to the kids.