My unwavering and immutable mission:
1. 100% positive
2. Kids first
3. Honest feelings
I have been a single-parent for four (and a half) years now, and I am finally getting the hang of it. There are plenty more bumps in the road, but I’m at peace with the life-changing event, and the now-I-can-see-this-is-better reflection of those past four years. My goal is to uncover the WINS and work to remove the MISSES and share those stories so that others who follow this difficult journey will have some illumination, from a previous sojourner.
My hope is to write the dad side of this story and gather contributing single-mom writers to tell the other half. My mantra will always be: lead with love and you will be heading in the right direction.
In the 90’s I was the Creative Director and Contributing Editor of MAN! Magazine. That’s where I learned to open my heart to the bursting point and work to stretch even further. Being great parents is a stretch goal for all of us. In these pages I will bring a hopeful light to bear on hard subjects, and together we (you, me, and my family) will find loving solutions to the new wrinkle of single-parenting. As if, parenting weren’t hard enough.
I wish you peace and strength.
But wait there’s more…
- I’ve started a new site FitbyTech to track and document my journey back to fitness. I’d love you to join me there as well.
- Here’s my Writer’s Page on The Huffington Post
- I am also a Contributing Editor (Divorce) to The Good Men Project
- My About.me Profile page
& I’d really love your follow on the Huffington Post: John McElhenney, single dad, writer
The official bio: John McElhenney is a single dad who lives and writes in Austin, Texas. He has published several books of poetry and a whimsical look at social media, The Twitter Way. He makes his living writing social media strategies for small businesses, and makes his heart smile playing tennis and music.
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