The Long Retelling of My Divorce
I did learn to love full-on in this marriage. I learned to put my whole soul into the project and come back with the joy of being a parent, and…
The Positive Divorce – Whole Parent 2018 Update
How can we make divorce part of an evolution towards happiness for all parties involved? I have been writing about and coaching single parents for five years. (A single parent…
Back to the Beginning: Co-Parenting with Serenity
Co-parenting is about accepting the other person for who they are, exactly as they are, and holding them in the best light you can. As we walk through our individual…
Grief is Underneath: A Divorce Fable
"I sat with my anger long enough, until she told me her real name grief." In the beginning, starting out on a relationship journey towards love and parenting, things are…
A Quick-Start Guide for the Divorcing Dad: The Off Times
When you go down the path of divorce, however you got there, a few realities are going to rush up and greet you rather quickly if you are a man.…
Going Positive and Growing Stronger After Divorce
This morning I give thanks for the flexibility and caring my ex-wife shows me and my kids when they ask for some new connection. We've both worked hard to get here. And as we work better together everyone benefits.
For Hire: Used Husband, Classic Model, Works Well With Kids
I'm feeling a bit like a for sale or for hire ad on Craigslist. Upbeat and optimistic dad of two middle-school kids seeks pleasant and easy-going woman for casual and…
What a Farty Old Dog Taught Me About Parenting, Divorce, and My Codependency
For the last years of his life, my buddy will do whatever he does as an old dog. I will watch him zigzagging around the back yard and try to remain happy for him rather than sad for him. I will love on him as much as I can. And I'll be aware of how my emotional attachments and complaints are mine alone. He's a dog.
