what you want

Dating is a Journey Until You Reach Your Destination

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Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:December 3, 2024
Post category:Dating humans of divorce Joy Relationships sexual chemistry Single-Dad

Know what you want. Know what you offer. Don't oversell. And for fks sake: DO NOT SETTLE.

Pause in the Gap: Trying to Force An Answer Is Not the Way

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:November 7, 2023
Post category:Co-Parenting Dating Love Married Life mindfulness Parenting relationship building Relationships Spirituality

If you can pause and consider the gap when you feel frustrated or impatient, you can tune in to your own feelings more accurately. And if you give your partner the opportunity to fill the gap you may learn something you didn't know, and something you couldn't have learned had you continued to be a gap crasher.

Dear Lover, I Want Everything Right Now

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:March 8, 2021
Post category:Dating Divorce Joy Love relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad Spirituality

I am learning to ask. I am learning to fall completely head-over-heels in love. Perhaps my choices have not all worked out, but they have all involved 100% effort on my part. And my love has soared to higher highs than I knew possible.