finding someone to love

Adjusting My Viewpoint: Online Dating

the horror of online dating

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:November 26, 2024
Post category:Dating Divorce humans of divorce Relationships Sex sexual chemistry Single-Dad

Don't give up. Keep positive. Learn to express your wants and needs, and understand why they are two different things.

Sex Without Desire Is More Like Porn Than Lovemaking

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:January 3, 2023
Post category:Dating Love Married Life Relationships Self-care Sex

This might have spelled the end more clearly than I understood. She didn't want sex. She fought about sex. She complained about how I asked for sex. She always got off when we had sex, but she had started not-caring about the LOVE in the experience. And that was a deal killer, both in the moment and in our marriage.

Dear Lover, I Want Everything Right Now

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:March 8, 2021
Post category:Dating Divorce Joy Love relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad Spirituality

I am learning to ask. I am learning to fall completely head-over-heels in love. Perhaps my choices have not all worked out, but they have all involved 100% effort on my part. And my love has soared to higher highs than I knew possible.