May you find peace in your life, love in your relationships, and a sipping tequila that you dip into occasionally.
If she drinks the third glass I begin looking for what I'm going to do that evening when she's fallen asleep. If she asks for water, my mind enters into a different set of fantasies that involve her participation. The real joy is that we've had this discussion.
There have been several times in my life when alcohol played a role in my own avoidance.