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GES: Good Enough Sex – Learning New Ideas

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:March 3, 2023
Post category:Dating relationship building Relationships self-awareness Self-care Sex sexual chemistry Single-Dad Spirituality
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Let's have better sex out there. Maybe not MORE ORGASMS, but definitely MORE SEX.

F2N Scale: Understanding Sex and Energy in Relationships

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 22, 2022
Post category:Anger Dating Health and Fitness humans of divorce Joy Love Married Life mindfulness relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex Spirituality
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By resetting our expectations about sex just a little (when we both have the energy) we can count on a more engaged and spontaneous partner. You can't be present when you're drowsy.

Reversing the Flow: Letting Women Lead More of the Courtship

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 14, 2022
Post category:Dating Health and Fitness humans of divorce relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad
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I'm alone. Fine. I'm retooling. I'm in a progression of rebuilding a number of things in my life that are (at this moment) more important than a relationship. When I'm in hunter mode I don't see things as clearly.

Young Girls at the Pool: Youth and the Folly of Desire

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:July 14, 2018
Post category:Dating Joy Self-care Sex Single-Dad
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I was in the pool yesterday with my girlfriend. My beautiful and lovely girlfriend. And two pair of girls entered the pool with us. Two very different pairs of girls.…

Sexual Energy and the Strength of #Desire in Men and Women

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:July 8, 2018
Post category:Dating relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex sexual chemistry Single-Dad
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But I'm curious, for a population in their 40s - 50s, with "families" already established if the sexual drive is more similar in men and women? Do we both enjoy the sexual thoughts that come from people watching? Aren't we essentially doing the same thing? Asking that tried and true question of our inexperienced, and pre-family youth, "Would ya do them?"

I Want To Thank You for the Divorce: Moving On to What’s Next

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:July 5, 2015
Post category:Dating Depression Divorce Health and Fitness Joy Love Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad
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It's already sounding snarky to me, but I have to give thanks to the mother of my children for releasing me from a marriage that had grown unbalanced and unhappy.…

I Sing the Body Connected: Cultivating Sexual Energy

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:August 11, 2014
Post category:Health and Fitness Joy Love relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad
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I want you to be happy. I want to feel the electrical current connect between us when we are together. I'd love to feel the flush of desire when we make arrangements to take off our clothes together.