my non-custodial loss Archives

Divorced Parents: Why the War Over Who Has It the Hardest?

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:May 13, 2023
Post category:Dating

When custody is awarded in most states the Attorney General's Office is rewarded with financial compensation by the federal government.

Falling Out of The Loop As a Single Parent

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:March 20, 2022
Post category:Anger burn Co-Parenting Depression Divorce humans of divorce Parenting Self-care Single-Dad Spirituality

My role now is very similar to my non-custodial dad role. I don't have a lot of time or opportunities to engage with my kids. I have to reach out. Keep reaching out. And let go of any outcome.

The 1/3 Parent: How Your State’s Family Law Is Harming Your Kids

father daughter relationship after divorce

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:February 19, 2022
Post category:Anger Co-Parenting Depression Divorce humans of divorce Joy Love Married Life Money Parenting Self-care Single-Dad Spirituality

After 11-years, my child support has been paid and my two children have launched from their mom's house. I am rebuilding for time lost with some success. What I lost I can never regain. What I can hope for is that my future years are going to be the best part of my relationship with my two kids.