It's obvious we cannot tell who someone is from their online dating profile. Am I being 100% honest on my dating profile? Does the fact that I darken my hair…
Two dogs meet in the park a. either both tails are wagging b. only one tail is wagging c. neither tail is wagging
You've gotta get out there to get over yourself. It's in the relating to a real woman in a real setting that things might become interesting.
If I am genuinely looking for a relationship and not just a date, then my concept of holding out for resonance becomes more critical. I've had a resonant partner once before. I know how that feels and how transformative that can be for both people. Anything less than that is a distraction.