How Do You Radiate? Becoming the Lover You Are Looking For

If I am genuinely looking for a relationship and not just a date, then my concept of holding out for resonance becomes more critical. I've had a resonant partner once before. I know how that feels and how transformative that can be for both people. Anything less than that is a distraction.

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Re-learning to Love In the Present Moment: Love’s Intoxication

I am learning better how to tap into the power of feelings and how they can motivate me towards doing better, being better. But I'm also too aware of how my feelings can lead me down dark and lonely paths. I am constantly trying to find the balanced walk down the middle.

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The Language of Love: Speaking the Truth with Kindness

Don't speak if you're message is unimportant. And when you do speak, pay attention to the words and the way you are communicating. Then, stay in the feedback look with the object of your attention, and tune to their energy and attention.

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Understanding My Co-parent’s Malfunction: My Easy Indifference

I'm sorry for this post, ahead of writing it. I have been weaning myself off of my "divorce" rant for some years. This year, I've even started slowing my coaching…

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Resilience, Self-Care, the Mindset of Joy in This Moment

Here's the deal: my moment is now. We're all about changing mindsets these days. It's all we hear about. Everybody is running around with misaligned mindsets trying to find a…

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