Overloaded, Overshared, and Overwhelmed? Stop Input & Output
I let go, completely, I am supported by the answers from the universe. I am supported by the thoughtful response of my partner in whatever way they need to respond.
Modern Courtship Online and Offline: What Do We All Want?
We don't want to be alone, but it's better than spending a lot of time on a partnership that is one-sided. A relationship requires both partners to be equally committed to the journey.
What’s So *F-in* Hard About Finding a Real Partner?
When your partner's actions are AWAY from you rather than TOWARDS you, it is time to go.
the heart is an odd engine : a poem
i do love the snow and you the drifting spin of lazy white flakes putting me at ease
Online Dating Refresh: Can We Start Over?
I quickly and clearly expressed my change of plans and released them back into the stream of possibilities. Get clear on your dating goals. And if you need someone to talk to about all of this crazy mess, I'm here.
Online Dating Optimized – The Next Chapter of Dating After a Breakup
In a seemingly random and brutal series of events, my life began a transformative reorientation. I was praying as hard as I could. I was working an entry-level job (that I loved by the way) at a local specialty grocery store, and... horror of all horrors was/am living with my 85 yo, mom.
The Trouble with Alcohol: She Likes To Drink, I Don’t (Or Didn’t…)
If she drinks the third glass I begin looking for what I'm going to do that evening when she's fallen asleep. If she asks for water, my mind enters into a different set of fantasies that involve her participation. The real joy is that we've had this discussion.
I Cannot Fix Your Broken Wings, I’m Still Repairing Mine
In a relationship that is not quite right, we (I am) are constantly on guard for things to begin going wrong. And either you work through those issues together or you don't. And if you don't you will be miserable trying to stay together. Better to move on.