Time, The Currency of Modern Relationships: Either You Have It To Give

Once you have decided to move on, you must understand that your former partner owes you nothing. Closure is a myth we like to "go for" in our breakups, but closure is up to us as individuals.

Continue Reading Time, The Currency of Modern Relationships: Either You Have It To Give

New Online Dating Survey Provides a Little Light and Misdirection

If the chemistry is on and flowing both ways, you will both be asking "What's next." If it's not mutual, move on. You will not be able to build a fire without initial sparks. (But don't overlook the slow-burn. If you're "sort of" interested, perhaps a second date is in order.)

Continue Reading New Online Dating Survey Provides a Little Light and Misdirection

How a Secure Attachment Looks and Feels in a Love Relationship

I am happier when I am in a relationship. My body is happier. My soul is glowing with the connection I feel to another human being. And my needs are being met on all levels, as we align ourselves and tune into each other's lives.

Continue Reading How a Secure Attachment Looks and Feels in a Love Relationship

Dating Lessons: All This Swiping Feels a Bit Demeaning

I have moved into the bedroom too quickly the last two times out. Both relationships taught me huge valuable lessons. And both relationships fulfilled some emptiness I was carrying around when we got together.

Continue Reading Dating Lessons: All This Swiping Feels a Bit Demeaning

The Joyful Woman is Nearby, I’ve Seen Her

Let's find the lighter path together. And if we find ourselves walking along it together, and continually renewing our intentions to get together again, maybe that's enough. I'm really ready for the "ready and centered" woman to show up.

Continue Reading The Joyful Woman is Nearby, I’ve Seen Her

Reversing the Flow: Putting Women in Charge of Dating Advances

Maybe this is what women feel all the time. The men are sizing them up as they might size up a meal. I'm hungry, but I'm interested in a woman who stays YES first. THEN I will show her my Tiger.

Continue Reading Reversing the Flow: Putting Women in Charge of Dating Advances