Dating Lessons: All This Swiping Feels a Bit Demeaning
"Go slow. Friends before lovers. There is no hurry. Pause before responding. Let them experience the chase for a bit as well." Swipe. Swipe. Swipe. That's all you've got to…
The Joyful Woman is Nearby, I’ve Seen Her
I learn a lot from self-observation. Even when I'm not actively looking for a relationship I notice the flow of people around me. People watching is a sport, right? And…
Planning For the Future In Your Relationship
We've all got stress. We've all got moments, Friday afternoons are a great example, when the breaking point is reached, and if we're lucky, the weekend is ready to open…
Offline Dating: Setting Intentions and Actions in Real Life
Let's start with an assumption: you are looking for the next real relationship of your life. Now let's look at what's wrong with online dating. Primarily based on photos. Photos…
The Fascinating Sound of a New Lover
The nuance and sublingual information captured in the sound of the human voice is amazing. Human hearing has been adapting and evolving over thousands of years. Where once our ancestors…
Drop Your Texting Obsession and Pick Up Your Love Life: Dating Lessons
I love texting. I'm a poet of texts. And if you're a mere mortal, using your thumbs to type, I'm likely to blow up your phone from time to time.…
A Sprinter In Love, and How I Am Learning to Pace Myself
I was a sprinter in high school. After my years of playing football and lifting weights, I was a bit of a jock. And when I joined the swim team…
