Setting Priorities in Life: The Only Path Forward
As our little boat struggles forward my wife and I are co-captains. And we have an awesome little crew of kids, dogs, cats, and even fish. All attached via rigging and lifelines.
Big 5 Relationship Questions to Answer Before You Start Dating Again
So let's make a pact, in our next round of dating "work" I want to commit to pursuing only the clear YES women. Everything else is a distraction. If I am interested in a relationship, that's going to take time, patience, perspective, and the right YES woman.
Listening To Yourself About Craving, Loneliness, Longing
And then I did something a bit different: I paid attention to how each of my options felt. I noticed I was not really in need of ice cream. I didn't need anything sweet.
The Beautiful Life/Dating Coach’s Dilemma: Our Reality vs Theirs
Love is a journey. Love is not a soul mate who sweeps you off your feet. Love is a bit more like beauty and the beast. We've got flaws, we've got inner dragons, we've got issues, and we STILL LOVE THE OTHER PERSON.
Defining 5 Love Skills: Moving the Love Languages Into Action
I do rely on Love Languages a lot, but I think we need more than that. We need action and clear commitments to fulfill with our partners. We need to give them the space to miss us. The space to get into their own inner dialogue about dreams and projects. We need to feel our own isolation and how much more vibrant we feel when we are together.
This Very Moment… This Is It… Stop… Smell the Roses… Give Thanks.
Stay in alignment with your goal. Make sure your goal is aligned with your purpose. And then notice when things are going right for you.
A Golden Thread Between Lovers: How Do We Disconnect?
As I learn more about my personal investment in threads, and my reluctance to let go of an elevated connection, I am better able to manage my own interactions, my own energy, and my own decisive disconnection of a golden thread.
How Do You Radiate? Becoming the Lover You Are Looking For
If I am genuinely looking for a relationship and not just a date, then my concept of holding out for resonance becomes more critical. I've had a resonant partner once before. I know how that feels and how transformative that can be for both people. Anything less than that is a distraction.