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Find Me Somebody to Love: Aspiring Towards a New Relationship

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:October 13, 2017
Post category:Dating Joy Love Relationships Sex Single-Dad

I can still have those lusty feelings, recognize them for what they are, appreciate the woman who triggered them, and the move on with my life as I am rebuilding it.

The Waiting is the Hardest Part: Dating a Single Parent

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:October 12, 2017
Post category:Co-Parenting Dating Depression humans of divorce Joy Love relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

At the moment I am in a perfect relationship. I wake up , go to sleep, nap, walk, play tennis, write... all that, I do all those things without considering another soul. I am in love with myself.

In Search of the Ideal Woman: to Rescue, Restore, and Ravish

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:October 11, 2017
Post category:Dating Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

You've gotta get out there to get over yourself. It's in the relating to a real woman in a real setting that things might become interesting.

Constant Craving: Loneliness and Longing

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:September 10, 2017
Post category:Dating Depression Health and Fitness Joy Love Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

If I am craving a women, for a relationship, for example, I am more likely to eat well, to keep my exercise routine constant. I am more likely to be working to make myself the best mate I could be.

Breaking Up: Grief and Loss as a Journey

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:September 5, 2017
Post category:Dating Depression Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

There was something hopeful about imagining hundreds of women who were looking for a relationship. I wanted to dip my toe in the water and see what they looked like.

Your Sex Is On Fire: The Intoxicating Burn of Love

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:August 20, 2017
Post category:Dating Health and Fitness Joy Love Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

As sex leads the way to love, the pathways in your brain really begin to get hyperactive. You start thinking about long-range plans together. You start imagining yourself with this person, living together, getting married, having kids. Love is the drug that has launched a million relationships.

Dear Single Moms, Here Are the Top 7 8 Things Single Dads Want

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Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:August 9, 2017
Post category:Dating Divorce Health and Fitness Joy Love Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

But I came upon a different perspective with my latest loss of a 2.5 year relationship. I don't want to date at all. I want to have some women friends and see if anything develops from our friendship. Like everyone goes into the friend zone until I'm 6 months sober from my last intoxicating adventure. I'm not ready to date or be in a relationship even though it's what I long for. I like being a couple. I like mundane joys alongside someone I love.

Single Dad, Again

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:August 2, 2017
Post category:Co-Parenting Dating Depression Divorce Health and Fitness humans of divorce Joy Love relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

So, if you're single, go ahead and put your best foot forward and get out there. Getting to a relationship may take months, so you might as well start exploring the field. And if you see the 10% as potentials then you begin to get hopeful that there "might" be someone out there for you.