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After Divorce w/ Kids: You Won’t Believe How Good It Can Get

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:June 19, 2018
Post category:Dating Divorce Parenting Sex

You won’t believe just how good it can get We’ll make a lover out of you yet — The Wallflowers Off as in wacky. Off as in when you don’t…

Pick One: Divorce, Scuba, Skydiving (The Thrilling Adventure of Single-Parenting)

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:June 16, 2018
Post category:Co-Parenting Dating Depression Divorce Health and Fitness Married Life Parenting Self-care Sex Single-Dad

I wanted 50/50 parenting. Not because of the money, but because that's how we'd raised our kids thus far, that's how we joined in our commitment to have kids in the first place. As long as the laws are written to give the mom the money and the time with the kids, the dads are going to have to fight for their rights to be equally valued in the post-marriage parenting plans.

The 7 Things You Learn When Seeking Love Again

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:June 5, 2018
Post category:Dating Health and Fitness humans of divorce relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

When I am ready in my soul, the relationship, the woman, will show up. She will stand in. And we will both be served in our individual quests for our own souls.

Reversing the Flow: Putting Women in Charge of Dating Advances

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:May 18, 2018
Post category:Dating Health and Fitness Joy Love Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

Maybe this is what women feel all the time. The men are sizing them up as they might size up a meal. I'm hungry, but I'm interested in a woman who stays YES first. THEN I will show her my Tiger.

Losing Everything Again, And Finding Happiness Anyway

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:May 7, 2018
Post category:Depression Divorce Joy mindfulness Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

I wrote goodbye letters to my former fiancé. I dug into my feelings and sat there, not really sure what actions to take. So I stayed still. I sat with the feelings. I prayed and meditated. I ate three meals a day and walked in the brutal Texas heat. And I kept going.

The Five Habits of Bad Sex

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:May 7, 2018
Post category:Dating Health and Fitness Joy Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

Connected sex is what I'm after and what drives my fulfilling feelings. I get closeness from sex. I get relaxation and bonding from sex. And with my wiring (my Love Language is touch) sex or "skin time" is important. But skin time can be cuddling. Or hugging and kissing on the couch.

The Temptations of a Man in Love

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:April 30, 2018
Post category:Dating humans of divorce relationship building Relationships Sex sexual chemistry

I didn't need a horrible family life to get my act together. That's what happened in my childhood, and this is who I am as a result, but it might have been different. Let me take a run at having a relationship that starts out with a healthy bias rather than one of recovery and repressed emotions.

Sex at 110 Miles Per Hour: Red Flags or Rushing Into Bliss?

Post author:John McElhenney
Post published:April 29, 2018
Post category:Dating Health and Fitness Joy relationship building Relationships Self-care Sex Single-Dad

And I'm driving back from the spiritual event last night, the moonroof is open, the music is pumping and she takes off her panties in the passenger seat of the beamer. It is a perfect moment.