Empty Nest Syndrome: How a Typical Divorce Affects Fathers Differently
The Divorce Brochure fails to mention is that once you've crossed over this bridge you can never turn back. This morning it will be 10 days since I saw my…
The Gamification of Online Dating: Why You’re Not Connecting
I hate to break the news to you about online dating apps. They are not in the business of connecting you with your next true love. They are in the…
The Divorce Brochure: How Mom Plays the Game of Divorce
[I feel like I should apologize in advance for the anger in this post. I am sorry. I know there are a ton of great moms who don't use divorce…
Becoming a Single Co-parent by Releasing Your Ex
My single parent prayer to my ex: “I wish you happiness in your new life, I always want to see you shine, you are the other half, the partner in…
What Went Down: Divorce is Not Kind. Co-parenting is a Myth.
The biggest blow in my divorce has been my ex-wife's decision to not co-parent with me. Let's get real. Two people agree to have kids and a huge shift happens…
Co-parenting Struggles: Withholding the Joy of Your Kids
My ex-wife and I don't talk anymore. That's how she's laid it out. With every email or text I wrote asking for a join or a meeting to discuss our…
A Pleasant First Date and the Change of Seasons Arrives
In the spaces between relationships, we get to know ourselves again. It is a "rainy days and Mondays" kind of a day here. I'm feeling the feels. And aware of…
Dads: When Family Courts Start at 70 – 30 Custody, the Kids Lose
When we started down the road of negotiating a cooperative divorce (because it's all about the children) our divorce and parenting plan counselor also suggested 70-30.
