The World Disappears
I am not lost. I am sad. I am strong. And my sister used to tell me in her hippie-spiritual way, "Everything is in its right place."
Divorce is a cruel storm. If we could see our ex-partners as humans rather than combatants, we could begin to heal the pain. We’re in this together, no matter how it turns out. Humans of Divorce are people who are doing their best in spite of the negative actions of their co-parent.
The New Rules of Sexual Chemistry: Frequency, Fun, and Fantasy
Keeping sexual communication open throughout your relationship is critical. As one partner starts closing off, and not just having periods of low sexual desire, but shutting down the idea of sex, something is going to break down.
Black and White Thinking: Looking At the Darkness of Divorce
It is only by recovery that we stop the pattern of abuse, neglect, infidelity, and other love destroyers.
Finding Peace at the Edge of the Unknown: Stoking Your Soul Fire
You deserve a great life. You deserve a huge bonfire of love and happiness. The Sparks are right inside you. The kindling of your life and the power of your attention are all you need to light your fire. Light it.
The Divorce Orchestration Library
I attempted to give hope to struggling families, hope to divorced and lonely people and a few simple practices of mindfulness.
I Am Offended By Infidelity
Infidelity and "fuck you" are too close to my history for me to enjoy them as jokes.
Finding Joy as a Single Parent During the Holidays: Our Celebration
I like to be on top of the world, as most of us do, but I haven't done very well in the past when I sink into "maintenance mode" rather than aspirational mode. What I learned from my last stumble is that I AM MY OWN WORST ENEMY.
Pie vs. Pot: Self-Regulation In the Limitless Era
Finding the balance in our lives requires self-awareness and the discipline, time, and energy to carry out our creative plans.