Positive Divorce: From Blame To Forgiveness
Be warned, some of you are not going to like this next sentence. The divorce was a good thing. I know, I can't say that with any information about your…
Listening to the Little Man Inside, Healing Our Hearts
I didn't notice it in my son's behavior or anything he said to me. It was a story he wrote, about a summer trip he took with his mom and…
Lean Into Anger: Healing My Father’s Fury
I am not an angry man. It takes a lot to get me angry. And when I'm lit, watch out, I explode. Anger scares most of us. And as a…
Finding the Happy Side of Difficult Divorce Street – FLIP IT
There are few funny moments in divorce but they do happen. And your ability to laugh at them, the circumstances, the difficulties themselves, can go a long way towards healing…
I Love You, Dad
Do you remember saying that to your father? I do. And tonight (by some trick of luck I have my kids a day early) my son said, as I turned out…
I Am Not the Problem in the Co-parenting Relationship, We Are
I am sad sometimes that I no longer have a partner and cheerleader in navigating these difficult times. But that role/relationship ended several years before the marriage did. And now I have two fabulous kids and their mom.
A Return to Wholeness After Divorce
I remember a discussion with my then-wife before we entered the "trying to get pregnant" phase of our sexual relationship. I felt very clear about my intentions. "I am ready…
