Co-parenting is a cooperative relationship. When one of the partners decides to be uncooperative it changes the dynamics. However, as a positive parent, you can be the bigger partner. Choosing the positive is about every aspect of your life, and your kids are the most important relationship you can manage.
There's no getting over the fact that a divorce is a failure. And I may never forgive my ex-wife for changing my time with my kids forever. The system is…
The "co" in co-parenting stands for cooperation collaborative dual-role in the best interest of the kids, not the divorced parents But often the "co" part breaks down in the divorced…
Today is my son's 17th birthday. I am not my son's hero. My son needs a hero. Several days ago my son experienced an existential crisis of some magnitude. Things…
When I was little my dad was a rageaholic and an alcoholic. And I learned to run and hide. Sometimes as an adult this is still my reaction to conflict.…
Co-parenting is a joint effort. If one parent no longer shares critical information, there's a problem. November begins the season of holidays and birthdays in my family. Remembering when the…
I've given up imagining that my words or actions can change her in any way. We'd like to think we can make another person happy, or comfortable, or secure. Unfortunately, we cannot.
If you are getting a divorce and you have kids, go for 50/50 parenting or nothing at all. FIGHT for 50/50 parenting and JOINT custody. Do not agree to be…
