Uh Oh, She’s Not Perfect, Not Even Close… Pitfalls of Online Dating Apps

Get real about your online dating plan: So, dating again really takes a new mindset. Define what is perfect for you, then dial it back by 80% and let the 20% of the unknown be a surprise left for you to discover.

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Losing Everything Again, And Finding Happiness Anyway

I wrote goodbye letters to my former fiancé. I dug into my feelings and sat there, not really sure what actions to take. So I stayed still. I sat with the feelings. I prayed and meditated. I ate three meals a day and walked in the brutal Texas heat. And I kept going.

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Going for Gratitude with Your Co-Parent, No Matter What

Today, I have everything I need. I may not be close to having everything I want. But my basics (food, shelter, safety, community) are pretty well covered. Today I can forgive my ex and focus on my kids and their well-being.

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Correcting the Lie and Non-existent Science Behind: Intelligence Genes Come from Mothers

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I do think we need to confront stereotyping bullshit that is written to fuel an agenda. These articles are not science, they are not correct, and they put forward a horrible US vs THEM proposition that has no place in healthy parenting or healthy discussions about parenting. I'm certain these posts are going to circulate in various circles to become ammo for fights and custody battles. This is shameful journalism. Actually, it's non-journalistic click-baiting. I'm sick of it.

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Will Facebook’s Online Dating App Finally Hook You Up? (And Two Major Flaws That Might Give You Pause)

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Facebook Announces their Dating App: Mark Zuckerberg and company see the billions of dollars people are spending on Tender, Bumble, OK Cupid, Match, and eHarmony, and they want a piece of the action on getting you action. And they've got a few advantages over all the other sites and apps.

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